Pets Fill a Special Role in Seniors' Lives
Having a pet can be a boon to body and soul—especially as we age.
"Seniors can benefit substantially from pet ownership," says Richard B. Ford, D.V.M., M.S., a veterinarian.
Pets offer companionship, something to nurture, unconditional love, and a sense of security in new situations. And pets can relieve stress, which may help explain why studies have found that pet owners have lower blood pressure and cholesterol levels.
The nurturing role
"Taking care of a creature that cares about you and responds to you is a real antidote and preventive medicine for loneliness and depression," says Lynette A. Hart, Ph.D., an animal behavior specialist.
The fact that you have to attend to a living creature gives structure to your life. If you have to feed your pet, you're more likely to get moving in the morning. The opportunity to nurture fills an essential need that can no longer be filled by grown children or by grandchildren who may not live near.
Pets provide us with the kind of nonjudgmental love we all need but probably don't get enough of. Everyone needs to laugh and play, no matter what our age. There's great joy in tossing a ball around or playing keep-away with your dog and Rover's favorite toy.
The social role
Pets can also fill a social role in older adults' lives. "For seniors who are uncomfortable with social relationships or in starting new ones after a spouse has passed away, having a pet offers an opportunity to meet other people, to talk about your pet," adds Dr. Ford.
California researchers outfitted older adults with tape recorders, then sent them out to walk their dogs. They found the dogs accounted for a lot of conversations. The owners talked constantly to their pets, and when they encountered a friend, the dogs were a major topic of conversation—even when the pet owners were walking without their dogs.
"It's like talking about the weather, only a lot more interesting," says Dr. Hart. This socializing effect is also true for people who are disabled. If they have a dog, peers are much more likely to approach them.
The physical benefits
Pets also carry physiological benefits. "Walking a dog is exercise for both you and your pet," says Dr. Ford.
Just petting an animal lowers your blood pressure (and that of the animal). Older adults who take care of a pet tend to do better at eating, exercising, caring for themselves, and getting around.
Some studies have found that pet owners have lower cholesterol levels—and that a year after a heart attack, people who have pets have a better survival rate than those who don't.
Older adults who own pets visit their doctors less often than those who don't have pets, according to one California study. That's true even for people experiencing major stress, such as dealing with the loss of a loved one.
"Owning a pet in some way counteracts the effects of stress," says Judith M. Siegel, Ph.D., a public health specialist.
Finding a pet
Interested in a pet? Dr. Ford suggests calling your local humane society or animal control society, a veterinarian, or a dog trainer. Avoid mismatches by selecting a pet appropriate to your lifestyle and mobility.
Training a boisterous puppy that will require a lot of exercise might seem too daunting. An adult dog is a better choice, but where do you look? "A lot of adult dogs given up to shelters are the last to be adopted," Dr. Ford says. "But some of them make the best pets for seniors because they are already housebroken and well trained, with good temperaments."
If you don't feel up to having a pet at home full time, one of your local animal societies might be able to link you with a volunteer willing to share a pet with you for a few hours each week. And in some programs, volunteers bring pets into nursing homes.